Choosing the Best Wedding Venues in St. Joseph Mo. So if you are planning a wedding in St. Joseph Mo without the aid of a wedding planner, your first concern should be to find the wedding venue. Naturally, the style of venue in St. Joseph Mo directly impacts on the style of wedding for it will shape the entire style, theme and décor of the whole day's proceedings. So after having set a date and a budget (actual or approximate), you need to decide what style of wedding you are after. No doubt some brides (and grooms!) will have been dreaming about their wedding for months or years before they are engaged and will have an idea about the style of wedding they want.